A North Star Metric is the one number a startup uses to align product, growth, and engineering on the same outcome. Good NSMs measure delivered value (rooms booked at Airbnb, songs played at Spotify, messages sent in Slack), not vanity (sign-ups, page views, MAUs).
The NSM should be a leading indicator of revenue and a lagging indicator of product quality. Most startups eventually decompose it into an input metric tree so each team can see how their work moves the top number.